How to Choose Shore Excursions That Please Grandparents, Parents, and Teens
You've picked the perfect cruise ship that has something for everyone, but what about when you get to port? For a Family C.E.O., this is often the next big challenge: finding a shore excursion that a 16-year-old thrill-seeker and a 76-year-old history buff will both enjoy. It's one of the biggest sources of planning stress.
The secret isn't necessarily finding one single activity for everyone, but in having a smart strategy to make sure everyone has their perfect day on shore.
The Solution: Mix, Match, and Divide
The key to a successful day in port for a multi-generational group is to embrace flexibility. Here are the two most effective strategies for planning your excursions.
Strategy 1: The “Divide and Conquer” Approach
This is often the best strategy. Your group can split up for the main part of the day to cater to different interests and energy levels, then meet up for lunch or back at the ship to share stories. This gives everyone the freedom to do what they truly want.
- The Adventure Crew: The teens and active adults can go on that thrilling zip-lining tour, hike to a waterfall, or go scuba diving.
- The Relaxation Crew: The grandparents and anyone wanting a calmer day can take a guided historical tour of the city, enjoy a relaxing catamaran sail, or attend a local cooking class.
This approach ensures no one feels like they are compromising, and it gives you fantastic stories to share over dinner.
Strategy 2: The “Something for Everyone” Excursion
While it can be tricky, there are some types of excursions that are genuinely great for nearly everyone in a multi-generational group. Look for these options:
- A Beach Day with Amenities: Find an excursion to a well-equipped beach club. This is a perfect choice because it allows for different activity levels in one place. The grandkids can go jet-skiing or play in the water while the grandparents relax in a shaded lounge chair with a book.
- Private Island Destinations: Cruise lines like Royal Caribbean (Perfect Day at CocoCay) and Disney (Castaway Cay) have perfected this. Their private islands are designed for multi-generational families, with everything from massive waterparks for the kids to quiet, adults-only beaches for those who want peace.
- Catamaran & Snorkel Trips: These are often a great middle ground. The more active members of the family can snorkel and swim, while others can simply enjoy the sun, the music, and the beautiful scenery from the comfort of the boat.
- Historic Site Tours: Many Caribbean port cities are rich with history. For example, in San Juan, Puerto Rico, the whole family can explore the famous Castillo San Felipe del Morro, a fascinating historical site managed by the U.S. National Park Service.
Planning your excursion spending is a key part of managing your family's travel budget.
Pro Tip: Always Check the “Activity Level”! Every shore excursion description includes a crucial piece of information: its “Activity Level” (e.g., Mild, Moderate, or Strenuous). Pay close attention to this. “Mild” is generally suitable for all guests, including those with mobility concerns, while “Strenuous” may involve long hikes or physically demanding activities.
Final Thoughts
The best way to please everyone is with a balanced itinerary. Plan a few “divide and conquer” days to let everyone pursue their passions, and one or two “everyone together” excursions to create those shared family memories.
For a complete overview of which cruise lines offer the best variety for groups, be sure to read our Ultimate Guide to Choosing the Best Cruise Line for Your Large Family Group.
